Over the past few months I have had the unprompted privilege to hear of the extent of the selfishness that is tolerated by men. It seems as if some men these days do not care how their actions affect women.
I was shocked to hear of a man who repeatedly cheated on the mother of his child. His actions tore her to pieces every time, but she continued to take him back and try to work things out. For her families sake she hoped his behavior would change, because during his begging and pleaded her promised it would. His behavior was chopping away as his girlfriends’ spirit. She began to doubt herself, her faithfulness and loyalty to this man could not make him change his ways. Finally she had enough; she was approached by a man who replaced what had been stripped from her. She began an affair with him, not out of revenge, but out of the pleasure of being respected and admired. Her guilt set in and the reality was that she could not split up her family. She ended things and continued to devote herself to her family.
Apparently a cheater can sniff out a cheater so he became suspicious, he approached her accusing her, lying that he had proof, so she quickly confessed. Since then he has made it absolutely clear that there is no way that things can be saved. As her life crumbles before her eyes she can understand why when she joins the game he started, he ends it.
In the end his actions and needs that he had to fulfill forced the women that truly loved him to cheat. Ultimately forever altering his life and the life of the family he once had.
More Than a Woman 